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House of Worship
For couples that are religious, the choice is often
obvious since they want to pick a church or temple of their particular faith in
the location of the wedding. Perhaps, this is the church you've been going to
all your life, perhaps it's the most convenient church of your denomination, or
perhaps it's been recommended by a friend or relative. Also, you don't need to
be very religious to have your wedding in a house of worship, but it's
definitely a very personal choice. If it's an interfaith marriage, it may be
trickier to find a place that will marry the couple.
Questions to ask when picking a house of worship:
- Are there restrictions on the type of ceremony?
- Do you have your choice of officiant or does the location
provide a list to choose from?
- What kind of music can you play?
- Are there restrictions on the faiths of the couple?
- Are there restrictions on whether one of the participants
has already been married?
- Does the location require you to be a member?
- Does the location provide a discount if you are a member?
- Does the location allow filming and photos?
Public Venue
A public venue such as a museum or park can be a beautiful place to hold
a wedding and may complement the values of the couple. Maybe you're both
graduate students and wish to get married in a museum or library to reflect your
shared values of education and the arts. Perhaps, you're met on a hiking trip
and worship the outdoors and so you want to hold the wedding in a park, at a
zoo, or near the water. Whatever the choice, public venues can be tricky because
of all the rules and restrictions in place. You will want to make sure to go
every detail of what you can and can't do at the location to make sure it fits
your needs. You may even want to ask for the names and telephone numbers of
other people who were married there so you can talk to them and find out if
there were any gotchas.
Here are some ideas for non-religious locations:
- Public park or beach front
- Museum
- Concert Hall
- Theater
- Garden
- Zoo
- Library
- Art Gallery
- Country Club
- School/University
Home Wedding
It may seem appealing to hold a wedding at home, but it can be a
difficult proposition. Most homes don't have the space or the right layout to
meet the demands of a wedding.
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